i ain't no hater but that nigga lost in the game
after the bright lights and big thangs,
he probably could love you but he in love with the struggle
everyday, his mind on gettin more
and never ya feelins he chasin millions for sure....
we all either know a girl like that or been that girl.
you know... the good girl who will stay with the bad guy for WAY too long, and make up all these excuses along the way, until he's hurt her so bad past the point of return that eventually....
she wakes up one day and just... doesn't love him the way she used to.
doesn't miss him.
doesn't want to call.
doesn't want to text.
doesn't run her fingers through her hair in exasperation.
doesn't put her hand over her heart when it aches.
doesn't wait for him to change.
all that bullshit she put herself through, just... STOPS. no more straws. his last chance, and he fucked it up. i mean, he's fucked up a million times before, but this time it REALLY IS different. not different out of anger. not different out of resent. not different out of hate. because anger, resent, and hate.... those don't last.
so what changed? what induced the change?
i guess.... love? for herself. finally realizing that no man will ever treat her right if she doesn't treat herself right. every girl will need a guy who is so completely unhealthy, time consuming, irrational, and crazy. the one who makes her lose sleep, wet her pillow with tears for nights on end, and apologize over and over with pathetic attempts to try and compensate his actions with petty words.
yes. EVERY GIRL needs that. because the truth is, we need to be hurt in order to learn how to not hurt others in that way. we don't take things at face value.... we take that shit right to the heart. if we really, truly love you, we will NEVER treat you the way he treated us. we will love you to the death of us, if you're worth it.
but i hate to break it to you, the good men out there waiting on us to wake up and realize what we're doing to ourselves.... we gotta love the bad guy first. if we don't know what it's like to be hurt, how can we avoid hurting you that way? nothing you say can change what needs to be done. for EVERY girl.
just please.... don't be the guy that hurts us again, and please remember that we can't guarantee you'll be the one. if it's meant to be, it will always find a way.
