useful/obvious/not-so-obvious information i have acquired

1. a day of being bitter can replace months of being overrun by pride and internal pain. so i don't know, book off two sundays from now and use that day to burn a bunch of shit, or write angry letters to people who piss you off or have upset you in the past. then drop them in the river or something cause sending them would just be stupid. either way, take one day to dispose of all that negativity. or as much as u can. but don't get greedy. game face comes back on after that, and you gotta grow your balls back.

2. the bible, now and then, is still very useful. hella jokes... always useful! once you get past the reality of the crap load of reading material, the small stuff really reps its place.


1.Listen without interrupting. (Proverbs 18)
2.Speak without accusing. (James 1:19)
3.Give without sparing. (Proverbs 21:26)
4.Pray without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9)
5.Answer without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1)
6.Share without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15)
7.Enjoy without complaint. (Philippians 2:14)
8.Trust without wavering. (Corinthians 13:7)
9.Forgive without punishing. (Colossians 3:13)
10.Promise without forgetting. (Proverbs 13:12)

3. if you are such an insomniac in the summer, ditch the internet, and watch one of those "late night with ____" shows. i generally enjoy jimmy fallon.
lmao i have a crush on him. who do i think i am. but really it will probably make you nostalgic or update you on current events or make you laugh a little bit. i won't front tho i sit on my couch and laugh my little ass off.

4. always carry an extra outfit if you will not be home for over 10 hours... or an extra shirt or something. or SHOES. i always carry flip flops around these days when tempted by late night chilling sessions. oopsies. also, sometimes i am a messy eater and need to be presentable for, well, life. so carrying an extra dress = better safe than stupid lookin.

5. sometimes staring at art is just... A TREAT. like a sundae with all the mothafuckin fixins treat.


6. at times, saying "no" in the nicest way you can, doesn't hurt. in fact the more i think about it, there's been times where people i've said no to didn't hold me accountable for the rest of my life - which is always kind of my fear lmao. so from now on, if i really can't afford to miss my friends birthday to take your work shift or i just want my ONLY day off - imma say no. plain and simple. hope you understand.

... yeh that's about ittttt that i can think of. i know there's infinitely more but these are the most useful as of late.